I think Ryan Gosling is swoon worthy,you may think He is swoon worthy,all the teary eyed girlies at The Notebook think Ryan Gosling is swoon worthy……
BUT
We also agree that He sadly plays a fictional character,while this fictional romance is something We would all love,a devoted,playful.sweet love by our side,the truth is that sadly real Noah’s are few and far between beyond the movie screen,in reality you will be letdown,you will be disappointed,you will be left…..
The good news?
This will not only enable you to learn about yourself more but also force you to pull up your boot straps,grow stronger and chalk it up to the saying
: If he won’t fight for you he isn’t right for you.
Because in the end as pessimistic as that is,sometimes you have to fight for yourself because if the person you love can’t see your value then perhaps you should let your value of them depreciate,while yours increases!?there are too many mirrors in the world for you to miss the view of your own lovely reflection,if you have been wounded…… more good news! wounds heal,just like hair grows back after a bad haircut, just give it time.
When I have been the unlucky recipient of the title “Dumpee I mope for a considerable amount of time,sure but I also try to shift focus and sometimes even do things I don’t want to because it helps to shift head space,it also doesn’t hurt to have some good friends to be with….
If all else fails:
To be clear I don’t condone revenge on an ex! Besides “What goes around comes around,I tend to subscribe to whatever Justin Timberlake sings about….
Eventually after the pain dulls and the sun shines in your life again(hopefully sooner than later!)
You’ll find it warming your heart too and when that light fills you up it has nowhere else to go but out of your eyes and maybe even in the direction of a cute new Ryan Gosling look-a- like!?
In conclusion you may whether you want to or not get pretty comfortable with yourself and may even think of your ex: “Thanks for loosing me from that ball&chain,your loss!
As a pin read that I bought once from an old dirty biker(,and warranted many unwanted pickups from gas station attendants):
Single&Ready To Mingle. enjoy the good times those moments are for you,
